My Goals

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Posted on 26th February 2009 by Mary Jane in Education | Fixations | Goals | Iloilo | Life | Personal | Telemarketer | Virtual Assistant | Writing

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Want to document my plans and goals for this year here in my blog. Will look at this by the end of the year to see if I did accomplish everything – which I plan to.

eva1. Be healthy and go back to being slim. I’m looking for Yoga classes here in Iloilo and and then I’m going to enroll. Start exercising everyday. Be healthy. I am getting heavier and it’s quiet alarming. I now officially have an undeniably awful-looking paunch (which Tim points out to me everyday). I want to get rid of it as soon as possible because I can’t fit into my old clothes anymore (and which is a waste because I have so many old clothes!) I want to fit into my old clothes! And every time we have our photo ops I find it really hard to hide the paunch. LOL. So I have finally started dieting. No more chocolates, cakes, ice creams, curls  and junk food for me now. Well maybe just once a week. LOL. I am waiting for a milk product from Dianne which will help me in my diet,  so I will reach my goal.  If I remember it right I think the name of the milk product is HerbaLife or something and I heard that it works really good. I promise to follow the program religiously. I won’t binge anymore. I will only eat when I’m hungry. I will only eat “on time.” I don’t wanna be chubby anymore. Hehehe.

750px-flag_of_spainsvg2. Learn to speak, read and write in Spanish. I’m learning how to write and speak in Spanish along with Tim. I am starting to get serious in this stuff. I’m trying to learn a phrase or two everyday. Tim’s bought a book. I’m studying online. We want to speak acceptable Spanish by the end of the year. We love and adore the Spanish language. Not only is it a romantic language, it’s also widely spoken around the world. And it’s a part of our heritage.  My goodness our family names are in fact Spanish if you’ve noticed. My Lola Mamang knows how to speak Spanish. I love listening to people speak that language. Me and Tim want to be linguists. It’s our dream.  :)

cc02 3. Enroll at CAP College. I am going back to school this year! Yes you read it right. My second ultimate dream, one of the things I want to achieve/fulfill before I die – will finally be put in motion this year. Hopefully there won’t be any hitches. I’m not listening to any discouragements from anyone. I plan to continue my studies while working at the same time. But wait, before anyone gets the wrong idea, just wanna clear up that I do love and enjoy my job! I mean who wouldn’t? Nothing beats working at home. :)   And honestly I earn more than you, if not you then the person next to you (this applies only to people living in the Philippines. LOL) And there are many out there who have degrees but still don’t have jobs, or if they do have jobs they’re not happy with it or usually it’s not related to the degree they’ve finished.  It’s just that I really want to finish college and get that hard-to-get diploma. It’s like an obsession to me. Just so everyone knows, I plan to enroll at CAP College the pioneer in Distance Education here in the Philippines. CAP College was patterned after the “open university” concept of education which is already well-established and widely accepted in more advanced countries of Europe, Australia, Canada, the United States and Asia. If anyone wants to learn more about CAP College just click here. Mamang suggested this college to me. And I know going to school at CAP College won’t interfere with my work. In fact it will actually help me with my work. I feel that it would be much much better for me if I enroll at CAP College instead of enrolling at the universities and colleges here in Iloilo. Aside from just learning my degree here at home and online, with a little person to person interaction which will only be during final examinations, I know that I will learn a lot more than those students who physically go to school and sit at classrooms and listen to other people talk.  I don’t have anything against teachers (my mother is a teacher) but for me I learn a lot better if I study by myself, not by listening to other people talk or by doing assignments and reports. I had more than one professor who just assigned reports to us for the whole semester and then just sat in the back of the classroom and listened to me and my classmates’ reports (so what happened was me and my classmates were teaching each other and all the professors did was just kinda supervise us giving a little input here and there). In fact, I think distance learning is a lot better. We get to really learn and study whether we like it or not — at our own pace. Then we will really deserve the grades we get, not because of some professor or teacher’s judgement or whim. This is MY opinion so if anyone disagrees – I don’t really care. In my point of view, everyone should earn their degrees through distance learning instead. Wanna know why I said that? Feel free to ask me. My reasons will be more understandable if you talk to me, not by just reading it here.  :)

cfclogo4. Be an active member of the CFC Singles for Christ. Right now every Sunday you will find me not only with Tim but also together with my brothers and sisters in Christ. I am building a blog for them now using WordPress too. I also want to help our less privileged brothers and sisters not only here in Iloilo but also in other places. I also want to help spread God’s words and God’s love not only to young people like me but also to everyone who will listen. Being with the SFC will help me fulfill my dream of helping others. See I’m not really a selfish person. :)

22That being said, I have an awful lot of things to do this year. This stuffs will keep me very busy. But it’s better to be busy than not right? I have a life, unlike other people. LOL. I am currently researching more about the things I need to enroll at CAP College then I’m planning to accomplish and gather all the requirements needed so I could finally enroll and start studying. All these I will do while I’m also working. I will send myself to school. I will be paying for my tuition fee. So I better study well and hard. Then next year I will start fulfilling my dream of having my own virtual assistance company. Nothing is impossible right? I thank the Lord for all the blessings I have received. And for all the blessings to come. Hope He will help me in my journey of fulfilling my dreams.

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Happy Valentine’s Day Nonoy Tim!

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Posted on 14th February 2009 by Mary Jane in Life | Love | My Bebeh | Personal | Writing

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Tim and Jane

A quick hello.

A friendly chat.

Texts. Calls.

And that was that.

They have been inseparable ever since.

Jane is mad about Tim.

Jane thinks Tim is the best thing that ever happened to her.

And Tim thinks she’s probably right.

Tim is kind, funny, serious, smart.

He is protective – but not possessive.

Friendly, but not patronizing.

Tim is cool, without trying.

In fact? Come to think of it, he’s almost too good to be true.

But he is true.

That’s why Jane loves him so much.

And she’s not letting go.

Even if Tim thinks otherwise.

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Happy Valentine’s Day Beh..

i love you..

It’s December! Yeyyy!

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Posted on 3rd December 2008 by Mary Jane in Entertainment | Events | Fixations | Life | Love | Media | Movies | Music | My Bebeh | Writing

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Can you believe it? It’s already December and 2008 is going to end in like 28 days! How quickly time flies these days – even if you’re not having fun.

Anyway, I’ve finished reading Veronica Decides To Die (Paulo Coelho) already. Actually I finished reading it last week. It’s a really good book. Hey guys do you know if its okay if I post excerpts of the novel here in my blog? Like my favorite lines and that kind of stuff? I mean I won’t be having copyright issues if I do that right? As long as I cite Paulo Coelho always? And I could also link his website here. Because I really want to write those beautiful and meaningful lines here. So I could share it to y’all so I could convince all of you to buy this book as well! You’ll get your money’s worth and you’ll learn something. I promise. Tim is reading it now. At least I think he is.

By the way, I still haven’t gotten over Twilight yet. What a great movie. Sometimes I wish I have a vampire for a boyfriend to. They’re just so handsome and cool. At least that’s how I see them in the movies. I’m going to buy a DVD of Twilight so I could watch it again. Robert Pattinson is the best. He’s really come a long way since portraying the role of Cedric Diggory in the movie Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. I’m also looking forward on watching The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas. I hear its a great movie. I have to read the novel its based on too. Written by John Boyne.

Found more songs entitled Mary Jane yesterday. Although I’m not sure if the composers wrote the song about a person or a thing. You know what I mean. The Click Five’s Mary Jane is on repeat mode in my head. I’m having the last song syndrome again.

Hhmmmm. What else am I going to write about. Tim is in Roxas again since yesterday. I wonder when he’ll be back. Lately he’s been complaining a lot – more than the usual on how he’s so tired of traveling. Its part of his job so he has to do it. Its great to travel, but he got tired of it. I feel sorry for him. Well that’s it. Just wanted to welcome December. Christmas is near. So excited! Til my next post!


unwinding with Bob Marley’s Three Little Birds

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Posted on 20th October 2008 by Mary Jane in Arts | Culture | Entertainment | Fixations | Life | Media | Movies | Music | Personal | Thoughts | Writing

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I have been listening to various kinds of music since I was a child. I remember when I was a little girl, every time my father plays his tapes and CDs, I join with the singing even though I don’t know the lyrics of the songs. It just makes me happy. :)

My father has an extensive collection of music. If I’m down and I want to listen to something that could really lift up my spirit – I just listen to reggae music – especially Bob Marley’s music.

I watched the movie “I Am Legend” just last week. Actually this movie came out last summer but I didn’t have the time to watch it then. Or maybe I was just afraid of the theme? Hehe. I thought it was about zombies and everybody dying again or something. That’s why I kept putting off watching it even though Tim has bought a DVD. Well, to make the story short, I finally watched it last week. And I scolded myself for waiting too long. It really is a great movie! I admire Will Smith’s acting. He is a very good actor. The movie is about not giving up and having faith.

Now why am I talking about “I Am Legend” now when I was talking about reggae music earlier? Here’s why – Will Smith’s character’s favorite song was Bob Marley’s “Three Little Birds!” Again, like what happened when I watched the movie “Mamma Mia”,memories came flooding back. Three Little Birds is my most favorite song by Bob Marley. I’m not a die-hard reggae fan but I do take pleasure in this kind of music and I go to bars and restaurants that feature reggae bands from time to time. It’s a great way to relieve stress.

I know Robert “Bob” Nesta Marley died even before I was born ( I was born 1985, Marley died 1981) but it doesn’t hinder me from admiring his music, opinions and beliefs. He’s a good man. He was born to a white English Jamaican father and a black Jamaican mother. He suffered from racial prejudice as a youth because of his mixed racial origins and also faced questions about his own racial identity throughout his life but instead of dwelling in this, he made music and made himself widely known in the whole world. He is a revered performer of reggae music and is credited for helping spread Jamaican music to the worldwide audience.

Now, I’ll put here in my blog Bob Marley and the Wailer’s song, my personal favorite – “Three Little Birds.” This is a song that could cheer everyone up on a bad day or can make us pursue our dreams. A song that makes us not want to give up. Even though Bob Marley is dead, his songs still lives in us. Enjoy!

Three Little Birds

Dont worry about a thing,
cause every little thing gonna be all right.
Singin: dont worry about a thing,
cause every little thing gonna be all right!

Rise up this mornin,
Smiled with the risin sun,
Three little birds
Pitch by my doorstep
Singin sweet songs
Of melodies pure and true,
Sayin, (this is my message to you-ou-ou:)

Singin: dont worry bout a thing,
cause every little thing gonna be all right.
Singin: dont worry (dont worry) bout a thing,
cause every little thing gonna be all right!

Rise up this mornin,
Smiled with the risin sun,
Three little birds
Pitch by my doorstep
Singin sweet songs
Of melodies pure and true,
Sayin, this is my message to you-ou-ou:

Singin: dont worry about a thing, worry about a thing, oh!
Every little thing gonna be all right. dont worry!
Singin: dont worry about a thing – I wont worry!
cause every little thing gonna be all right.

Singin: dont worry about a thing,
cause every little thing gonna be all right – I wont worry!
Singin: dont worry about a thing,
cause every little thing gonna be all right.
Singin: dont worry about a thing, oh no!
cause every little thing gonna be all right!

i had my ear pierced!

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Posted on 12th October 2008 by Mary Jane in Arts | Events | Family | Fixations | Friends | Friendship | Health | Iloilo | Life | Love | Personal | Random | Thoughts | Writing

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Hey guys! I FINALLY HAD MY EAR PIERCED FOR REAL!!! I had my left earlobe, on the upper right part pierced. I bought this really cool cross stud with a faux diamond stud at Unisilver earlier this morning, around 9AM then I had my ear pierced for free. The lady who did it used a gun (not the real gun but the gun used in ear-piercing of course). I had to make my own waiver and to sign their waiver as well just to persuade them to agree to do the piercing. Because they’ve had bad experiences with dumb clients who complained when their ears got irritated because of the ear-piercing.

I have one wee problem though. Tim is in Bacolod and he still doesn’t know about what I did. He knows that I really want this done ever since before we met and he has always told me that he doesn’t want to see me sporting a stud. But because he’s not here well nobody stopped me so the DEED was done. And I’m feeling so cool and elated.

I thought my ear was going to hurt so bad that I won’t be able to sleep but right now I’m feeling so drowsy that I’m going to end this post already. I only hope that my bebeh won’t be so angry with me when he sees my new earring. Hope he’ll understand.

I’ll have a photo here of my new fashion statement within this week guys! So proud of myself! :)

*post written October 8, 2008

UPDATE:

October 14, 2008. My bebeh and my parents had seen the stud. My parents – no comment. My bebeh – very angry (of course as expected) when he saw the stud then ignored me for a day. I felt a little guilty but then the deed was done so there’s nothing anyone can do about it. Anyway, he’s ignoring the ear too. Fine with me. as long as he doesn’t pull the stud off. Hehe. ;)

November 14, 2008. After a month, my ear’s still a little sore but I think it has healed. I can sleep without feeling it hurting now. And I don’t care much of hiding it anymore. I love my stud. ;)

*photos coming soon!

DTR Mottos

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Posted on 4th October 2008 by Mary Jane in Arts | Comedy | Entertainment | Fixations | Friends | Friendship | Humor | Iloilo | Iloilo Bloggers | Life | Love | Media | Movies | Music | My Job | Party | Personal | Politics | Random | Religion | Sports | Telemarketer | Thoughts | Typhoon Frank | Writing

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As always, the drone of my job is constantly boring me. So I try finding ways to amuse myself.  Usually what I do is I just browse the internet for useless topics like celebrity gossip, read horror stories, jokes and other people’s blogs.

 

But today, I found a very fascinating distraction—interpreting the DTR mottos of my co-workers, particularly the people within my department. J

 

            Here are some of their mottos:

 

i had a wish that everything would turn out well in the end.. with all i have, i did what i thought was right.. i spoke words that i thought would heal and bring the truth to light.. but i fear that all i have said and done were all wrong for it seems that everything is lost.. with hopes of having a new start, instead, i brought the end.. but i still look forward to the bright side amidst hollowness and hurt, regret and self-pity.. i can only hope and wish..

                        –Torda (Of Course-The One and Only Jeffrey!)

 

 

“Once you POP. . . . . . YOU CAN’T STOP!!!” (–,)

                        –Abert (The Manyakikoy)

 

 

“The spaces between your fingers were created so that another’s could fill them in.”

                        –Mimay (My Longtime Friend)

 

 

A-ttention, I-nterest, D-esire, C-ommitment, A-ction

                        –Mekrang (The Hard to the Core Girl)

 

 

~*~SoMeTimEs GOD cALmS tHe StOrM…. sOmEtimEs He LeTs tHe sToRm rAgE aNd CaLmS HiS ChiLD.~*~

                        –April (The Lady Lesbian???)

 

Be the change you wish to see in the world.

                        –Bernadette (The Accounts Manager)

 

Life is short.. Be Happy,.

                        –Bebang (The Strict Momma Friend)

 

 

It doesn’t matter what the other is being, doing, having, saying, wanting, demanding. It doesn’t matter what the other is thinking, expecting, planning. It only matters what you are being in relationship to that.

                        –Crystal (The TL)

 

 

In Mehiko!!!I kill a man for a Tequilla. But since your are my friend….I kill you for free!!!

                        –Dedrick (The Flawless Rocker)

 

freedom isn’t free; it comes with a trainload of responsibilities…

                        –Dianne (The Future Sister-In-Law)

 

If you’re attractive enough on the outside, people will forgive you for being irritating to the core.

                        –Earl (The Davaoeno)

 

 

…spin to the top… back it up with a slice… lob til it drops… a flat down the line… slam it mid-air… serve with a wham… double it up to save the game!

                        –Eric (The Guy Next Door..Ooops! I mean Cube)

 

Which is worse – the sleep which never ends or that which never comes?

                        –Fritz (One of the Newbies)

 

****Believe that the best will happen everyday…. be aware that even trials are gifts to make us strong enough to face life and trying times…. Always think positive!*****

                        –Ginalyn (The Nicest Mom)

 

Everything happens for a reason…

                        –Imee (One of the Newbies)

 

Pressure is my new bestfriend. Keep calling!

                        –Janice (The Drama Queen)

 

“WATCH OUT”

                        –Jay-R (The Other Sales Coach)

 

 

Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. – Thomas A. Edison

                        –Joanne (The Pretty Burrito)

 

Time flies fast when you don’t worry much about the past.

                        –Jonha R. (The Baby of IT)

 

 

“I know it’s probably impossible that we will ever be together….But that doesn’t mean we can’t have a few laughs together, you know. I’ll take whatever you can give cause I’m just happy to be with you!”

                        –Jorene (The Sexy Antiquena)

 

 

What we are right now is the result of what we did yesterday so better yet think what is best for our tomorrow rather than thinking what is the best today.

                        –Josca (The Incentive Buster)

 

 

destiny is something people invent because some can’t stand the fact that everything that happens is the result of the choice they made…

                        –Katrina (Huh?)

 

 

IT ENDED IN GAME TIU!!! Blue Eagles ‘71 campione!

                        –Lovely (One of the Newbies)

 

My drug is ElekTrO.

                        –Cielo (The Handsome She-Man)

 

 

These messages will now become subliminal but your subconscious mind will be hearing and accepting all of the positive messages. Listen to the tapes as often as you can. The more you listen, the sooner success will come.

                        –Lynn Frances (The Strict QA)

 

 

don’t you have anything to do with your life? or you’re just happy making other’s life miserable?coz you’re in that position and have the decision? well let me tell you something! people doing those things are just insecure and coward, they hide through the power and position they have…but if you put them in a fair battle they are for sure a loser! and by the way that’s the devil’s way!

                        –Cathy (The Gorgeous Mom)

 

Potentially self-destructive.

                        –Shey (The Friendly Deep Girl)

 

“Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of a joy you must have somebody to divide it with.”

                        –Luz (The silent One)

 

Don’t Quit.

                        –Zsa Zsa (The Rookie Girl)

 

“you can always trust a dishonest man 2 b dishonest; its the honest man you should not trust coz ul never know when he’s gonna b dishonest.” -Capt. Jack Sparrow

                        –Marigold (The Cute Girl)

 

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                        –Honesty (The Honest Girl)

 

I am bigger than anything that can happen to me. All these things, sorrow, misfortune, and suffering, are outside my door. I am in the house and I have a key. -Charles Fletcher Lummis

                        –Mary Irene (The Number 1 Rookie!)

 

I’m not that innocent. I’m just the eternal optimist. I’m forever yours, faithfully. http://www.maryjanecabrera.wordpress.com

                        –Mary Jane (Me!)

 

aLL dreSsed up aNd nowHeRe to gO…

                        –Mecian (The Pretty Girl)

 

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                        –Michelle (The Happy Go Lucky Rocker Girl)

 

31Then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him, If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed; 32And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. 33They answered him, We be Abraham’s seed, and were never in bondage to any man: how sayest thou, Ye shall be made free? 34Jesus answered them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin. 35And the servant abideth not in the house for ever: but the Son abideth ever. 36If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed. John 8:31-36

                        –Nick (The Sales Coach)

 

If only God can slap your face because you lied…

                        –Orange (The Silent But Deadly He-Woman)

 

“…can you picture what could be so limitless and free?….”

                        –Richard Rull (The Long-Haired Rakista)

 

 

red pill or blue pill???? Take the blue pill and see how deep the rabbit hole goes…..

                        –Richard Villaruel (The AMboy)

 

 

ooh kahayag sa imong panagway,nga na ulipon sa gugmang gi atay..inday paminawa kabus kung gugma,nga kanimo akong i gasa dili ko man ma hatag ang tanang bahandi ning kalibutan apan inday dungga intawn ang alaot nga na ulipon sa gugmang gi atay..(ambassadors)

                        –Roger (The Cebuano Rakista)

 

My choice is what i choose to do, if I’m causing no harm, it shouldn’t bother you. Your choice is what you choose to be, and if you’re causing no harm, then you’re alright with me.

                        –Roland (The Silent Type Guy)

 

If you love me just let me know, if not; just gently let me go…lango2 lng..heHe

                        –Romerico (One of the Newbies)

 

“Everyone is unique, just like everyone else.”

                        –Theda (The Pretty Sexy Mama)

 

 

A person isn’t born with the intelligence to be with someone special, you learn it, and you fail in the path of life, but you don’t have to give up the chance to love.

                        –Vincent (The Jake Cuenca of IT)

 

It’s impossible to surpass those years that you’ve been together, those happy and sad memories that made both of you stronger. But that won’t stop me from loving you. That won’t stop me from believing that there are still chances. I can take the pain but what I can’t bear is you leaving me in between roads with no directions to go to.

                        –Raucel (The Hopeless Romantic)

Amy and MJ are friends again!

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Posted on 4th October 2008 by Mary Jane in Events | Fixations | Friends | Friendship | Iloilo | Life | Love | My Job | Random | Telemarketer | Thoughts | Writing

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      This morning we attended a First Friday Mass at Callbox. I forgot the name of the priest but I didn’t forget his homily. I went with Amy and Monica. Not everyone—actually—nobody else knows that Amy and I had a “cool off” phase in our friendship except Jeffrey and Monica. I really don’t remember the reason why we drifted apart for almost 6 months (it started the week after we came back from Baras, Guimaras) but we just stopped hanging out together. Before that happened, we were always seen together during lunch and break time. If Amy eats lunch, I eat lunch too. If I go to sleep, Amy goes to sleep too. And often we just sit at the couch at the 3rd floor and just talk about random things. And oftentimes we laugh and share secrets and personal stuffs happening at home and in our lives.

 

      Then came that fateful day when we just stopped talking to each other.  It was as simple as that. And I told Nong Jeffrey and Monica about what’s happening. And I also learned that Amy was talking to the two of them as well. So nobody else knew what was happening except the four of us. If our co-workers noticed, they didn’t ask. They were kind enough to leave us alone. What makes me happy with that kind of situation was that even if Amy and I were “not friends” we weren’t spreading rumors or bad things about each other. We weren’t gossiping about each other. And the secrets we shared were still secrets.

 

      I’m telling you this because it relates to the priest’s homily. His topic was about love. Love for your special someone, love for your family and the love for your friends. That for love to last, you only not have to FEEL the love or THINK the love but also importantly to BE WILLING to love.  Amy and I looked at each other on this part of the homily and we just giggled. J By the way we’re friends now. We talked to each other Friday of last week. To make the story short, we just hugged each other on Saturday morning. We missed each other. And we weren’t selfish to say that. I actually shed some tears. Hehehe. But that simply means that I love my friend and I value her. We’re hanging out together now. There’s no tension between us and everything is back to normal. It’s as if nothing happened. Nong Jeffrey and Monica are happy for the both of us. Amy is such a great friend and I would hate to lose her. I hope she reads this so she’ll know how much I value her friendship and her loyalty.

 

      Ayms! Friends forever ta ya ha

 

 

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